Its funny but I have learned so much. The criteria is perfect. If it seems too good to be true well darnit its the the truth they are 98 out of 100 full of it. They seek out women who are tragically ordinary. He tells you everything you want to hear. All those things that you dream of. Its quite disgusting actually. He almost always ask you to leave the site that you met him on. He wants to know more about you so he can exploit it. You dont think that because in your eyes hes perfect. He is sucking you in. If his picture is desirable well unfortunately that is a sign. He is most likely a fraud. Im sorry, I dont mean to be offensive ladies but its the truth. We want the handsome man. He more than likely wont want the ordinary he wants the equality of his own image. Im saying this as an ordinary woman. If he says things like. Baby I dont get on this site much but id like to get to know you better email me at imthashit@yahoo.com , 9 xs out of 10 he is full of shit. Hone your instincts ladies, if its too good to be true it probably is. Its is so easy to be every persons dream when you can mask yourself behind the web. You know deep down when you see the signs. Protect yourself. You can toy with these users just like they are toying with you, you just have to keep it real with yourself. Prince Charming doesn't exist. He is a fairy tale for a reason. Dont be a victim. Take charge of your own future. Use that same game against him. Get your high off of the complimentary but know your limits. Know your being played and learn the game. Ask the right questions so that you can be ahead. If they cant skype well then its because they cant be that pic they claimed to be. If they cant call well then its probably because they see who they say they are. If you just seek the vindication of having someone just love you fakely well then play the game but do it knowing that your playing with an enemy. We all want to be loved and beautiful in someones eyes. These jerks exploit the lonely. They exploit the average, the overweight, the not magazine beautiful, I can say this because I myself qualify. The difference is I love myself. I find myself awesome. Self confidence is a muthafucka. It kerpd me from becoming a statistic. Be strong. Love yourself and dont let those scammers get at you.
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Tuesday, April 29, 2014
The Handy Scam
Put myself on a dating website to see just how out of whack I really am in that arena. Being divorced in your 40's just is an unfair advantage, yet in some ways its not. We are by far smarter in our 40's or at least I am. My goals are totally different now than they were in my 20's. At this point in my life I am looking for substance, decent conversation, date night and someone who can go without talking about his penis for more than a good period of time. In my 20's, my goals were "is he fine?" and that was about it.
What I have found is the new age scammers and they gave me the desire to start this blog. A man calling himself Scott Handy, reached out to me on the dating website. He appealed to all my vanity and desire to have something wonderful. He was handsome, had a daughter whom he had custody of, was in the service and he was looking for a good woman. Spoke of God being first in his life and overall was just the fairytale that all women are looking for. Within a matter of days this man was telling me he was falling for me and he wanted to be my forever. Funny part was, in 2014, he had no cell phone. When questioned about this, his response was that he was in Kabul Afhanistan as infantry and sicne this was right around the time the 3 doctors were shot, he said they were under strict orders to limit phone calls to family and "he would get me added to the list soon". Fishy right, yep catfishy. So in my boredom, I let him go on and engage. Within days, he was asking me to marry him and providing me pictures of his home and many things. Telling me how his daughter needed a mother because her mother was a drug addict. Fishy right, yep catfishy. So once he started smelling so bad I couldn't stand it anymore I set out to find out more about this guy. I googled "Scott Handy Daytona FL" got nothing, I then googled "SSG Handy" and the plot thickened.
This sociopath is out there with Lord only knows who's picture, advertising himself under 50 different versions of the last name Handy, he changes it up from time to time but for the most part he remains a Handy. Im sure it is because the pictures he has stolen have a soldier with the last name Handy on them.
The pictures below are the ones being used. I know he is handsome, he really really is but think about it ladies, this man is dressed expensively in his civilian clothes and he works out all of the time. He is totally into self and looks so that should be your first clue. Even if you are beautiful on the inside and out the man behind that keyboard isn't the man in the photo and he does not love you, he doesn't even like you. He wants your money. He wants you to be totally devoted to him so that if he asked for your account information you would give it to him. Even if he tries to send you a check of some kind, don't cash it, it has trace information and is a form of fraud to hack your account. The scammers behind this picture have really hurt a lot of women. It is really sad.
This man stole nothing from me, but some time out of my day that I allowed him to in order to see what all he was really going to say or how far he would really take it. When I coudn't swallow one more pill, I told him I thought him fake. His tune changed greatly, but then an hour later he was right back to trying. Really just sociopathic behavior.
These are the types of letters you will receive in your email from him.
Subject: You consume my thought
Hey honey ,
There is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head since our last chat. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this.I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. Another relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life.
I woke up with you on my mind. I just want to say thank you for coming into my life. I am glad we've met.Glad to know you are one. I want to see you walk down that the street holding your hands and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt) always, lol.
I want to be old and still make out with you like a little schoolboy. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out.
I am very happy to have met you. I want to get to chat With you today, I have something to always come here to. Thank you and I hope you are glad we have met. i love you forever
Your Soldier Man.
Scott
These are his alias names :
Nicholas Handy
James Walker
Handy Smith
Scott Handy
These are his various profiles:
What I have found is the new age scammers and they gave me the desire to start this blog. A man calling himself Scott Handy, reached out to me on the dating website. He appealed to all my vanity and desire to have something wonderful. He was handsome, had a daughter whom he had custody of, was in the service and he was looking for a good woman. Spoke of God being first in his life and overall was just the fairytale that all women are looking for. Within a matter of days this man was telling me he was falling for me and he wanted to be my forever. Funny part was, in 2014, he had no cell phone. When questioned about this, his response was that he was in Kabul Afhanistan as infantry and sicne this was right around the time the 3 doctors were shot, he said they were under strict orders to limit phone calls to family and "he would get me added to the list soon". Fishy right, yep catfishy. So in my boredom, I let him go on and engage. Within days, he was asking me to marry him and providing me pictures of his home and many things. Telling me how his daughter needed a mother because her mother was a drug addict. Fishy right, yep catfishy. So once he started smelling so bad I couldn't stand it anymore I set out to find out more about this guy. I googled "Scott Handy Daytona FL" got nothing, I then googled "SSG Handy" and the plot thickened.
This sociopath is out there with Lord only knows who's picture, advertising himself under 50 different versions of the last name Handy, he changes it up from time to time but for the most part he remains a Handy. Im sure it is because the pictures he has stolen have a soldier with the last name Handy on them.
The pictures below are the ones being used. I know he is handsome, he really really is but think about it ladies, this man is dressed expensively in his civilian clothes and he works out all of the time. He is totally into self and looks so that should be your first clue. Even if you are beautiful on the inside and out the man behind that keyboard isn't the man in the photo and he does not love you, he doesn't even like you. He wants your money. He wants you to be totally devoted to him so that if he asked for your account information you would give it to him. Even if he tries to send you a check of some kind, don't cash it, it has trace information and is a form of fraud to hack your account. The scammers behind this picture have really hurt a lot of women. It is really sad.
This man stole nothing from me, but some time out of my day that I allowed him to in order to see what all he was really going to say or how far he would really take it. When I coudn't swallow one more pill, I told him I thought him fake. His tune changed greatly, but then an hour later he was right back to trying. Really just sociopathic behavior.
These are the types of letters you will receive in your email from him.
From: Handy Scott (handyscott28@yahoo.com)
Hi ,
When I was a little boy, I dreamed of that one person that I would share my dreams, happiness and energy with ... I could not see her face but she was there. I always felt like she was out there, I just needed to feel her. I visualized the bond we would have and the courage she would give me to endure life's obstacles. All these years I was with others, and feeling my way through life, learning lessons that later on would prepare me to become the person that I am now. I have felt alone and sad. Then one day my eyes opened and I became that little boy again ... realizing that she is here now. Here in my world was the woman that I had dreamed of and I'd hoped would not miss our meeting in life ... that woman is you and on a day like this I promise that I will never let you slip away now that i have found you, i love you forever
Love always,
Scott
You are irreplaceable
Hi ,
When I was a little boy, I dreamed of that one person that I would share my dreams, happiness and energy with ... I could not see her face but she was there. I always felt like she was out there, I just needed to feel her. I visualized the bond we would have and the courage she would give me to endure life's obstacles. All these years I was with others, and feeling my way through life, learning lessons that later on would prepare me to become the person that I am now. I have felt alone and sad. Then one day my eyes opened and I became that little boy again ... realizing that she is here now. Here in my world was the woman that I had dreamed of and I'd hoped would not miss our meeting in life ... that woman is you and on a day like this I promise that I will never let you slip away now that i have found you, i love you forever
Love always,
Scott
You are irreplaceable
From: "Handy Scott" <handyscott28@yahoo.com>From: Handy Scott (handyscott28@yahoo.com)
My queen..My Heart..My Love,
How is your night? I do miss you so much. I have never in my life met someone more beautiful, enjoyable, loving, and comforting as you. Since the very first day that I met you,I knew there was something very special about you. I had no idea then that I would fall in love, but now that I have, I am so grateful. I am grateful for us to have wandered into one another's world so softly and unexpectedly. Nature took its course on our hearts and joined them in a way never imaginable. I want you to know that from the very depths of my heart, I love you. And I love everything that creates you, from your hair - that I wish I could play in more often... to your forehead - that I wish I could kiss while you sleep; from your eyes - that sparkle when you smile (just for me)... to your nose - that I wish I could rub my nose against; from your lips - that I just know were made perfectly to fit against mine... to your chin - that I would love to place my finger under to pull you close for a kiss; down your neck and to your heart - that in my own, I claim as mine, and down past every inch of every part of your existence. I wish more than anything that you and I could grow together, love together, learn together, and laugh together, forever. I sincerely feel that between the two of us, we have the kind of love that some people never get a chance to experience. I promise to love you as much as I can, as best as I can, and for as long as I can. And no matter what, it's very important to me for you to know that you are an irreplaceable spirit that will always be a part of me. I love you with every fiber of my being and you mean the world to me.
Have a wonderful day ,
Your King,
Scott
Subject: You consume my thought
Hey honey ,
There is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head since our last chat. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this.I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. Another relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life.
I woke up with you on my mind. I just want to say thank you for coming into my life. I am glad we've met.Glad to know you are one. I want to see you walk down that the street holding your hands and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt) always, lol.
I want to be old and still make out with you like a little schoolboy. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out.
I am very happy to have met you. I want to get to chat With you today, I have something to always come here to. Thank you and I hope you are glad we have met. i love you forever
Your Soldier Man.
Scott
These are his alias names :
Handy Illescas
Anthony Handy
David Handy
Washington Handy
Handy Thomas
Handy Roy
Leonard Handy
Handy More
Williams Brian Handy
Anthony Handy
Robinson Handy
Antony Handy
George handyAnthony Handy
David Handy
Washington Handy
Handy Thomas
Handy Roy
Leonard Handy
Handy More
Williams Brian Handy
Anthony Handy
Robinson Handy
Antony Handy
Nicholas Handy
James Walker
Handy Smith
Scott Handy
These are his various profiles:
http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=91&t=44638
https://www.facebook.com/handy.goldstein
These are his various email addresses: (Notice they are all yahoo)
nickhandy834@yahoo.com
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